The Single One
Divorced & tossed back into the dating area… Chemistry, connection, fun factor high & great reparte – all sounds good – somehow it is not enough these days. They all go into the dating abyss. What happens to them? In the speed world of dating… options are endless & fleeting. Your internet persona constantly judged. How many first date outfits do you need to purchase? If everyone continually moves one to the right – what finally happens? Does everyone remain single?
The Married One
The perfect husband…is there such a thing? You need the same elements as the single girl. Chemistry, connection, companionship and one other very important thing – patience! Traveling together can be the ultimate test. Packing, unpacking, undecipherable maps, getting lost, where to eat, what not to eat and most importantly -the ability for him to be patient while I shop! In that respect Ron is the perfect husband!
The Single One
Can you date someone with a different pace? Do opposites attract or is it really of like mind & pace? Two different paces. How would that work? I’m ready to go and he’s sleeping. I have seen the look of exhaustion on their “date face.” I’m sure relaxation and sleep are a good way to re-vitalize the spirit – but not for me. Pace only matters if one person feels out of sinc. If one leads and the other follows effortlessly – that can be a pretty smooth balance.
The Married One
The move… Moving and stress go hand in hand. What can test a marriage more? Most men are creatures of habit. When things are out of place they are lost. Who knew? Decisions like what to get rid of, (not your things of course) painting, furniture, electrical, contractors (he will become your new second husband) will wear you both down. Why didn’t you just stay where you were? Try not to forget this is fun & exciting. Stay tuned…next the sage burning!