The Single One
Should you buy it or not? Being single means you can shop without being asked, “What do you need that for?” So in a moment of joy or feeling depressed you can go shopping, no questions asked. Can you ever have enough leggings, white sweaters and boots? They are staples! Does shopping replace a dateless Saturday night? Not exactly – but it helps. Coming home with hot new fashion items is therapeutic. So instead of too many cocktails try retail therapy. By the way do we ever need to shop? Of course. Does this replace sex??? Not even close. Single and Shopping or Married and Sex – guess which one wins?
The Married One
Part II : Ways to turn up the heat
Sex – Relationships need it. Being married sometimes means same place, same time, same position. Sound familiar? Shake it up a bit? Plan a play date -planned sex can be hot sex! What about a pillow fight, or a kiss or hug? Have phone sex in the middle of the day (make sure the kids are in school). It is easy to forget the simplest things can make a difference in your sex life. We loved to play with toys as a child. Why stop now? JimmyJane can expand your repertoire. Blindfolds, handcuffs, feathers, let your imagination run. Or play a board game. Whether married or single we all want better game skills! Wouldn’t buying one of these below be better than buying a tie? (unless you use the tie for something else!)
The Married One
Are Other Couples Having More Sex Than You? Part One
Being married requires work. Keeping the home fires burning requires effort. Are you too tired, is it boring, does “it” work, are you still desirable to each other? Hopefully the answer is hell yes! So why aren’t you? Too comfortable (you can anticipate his every move), it’s dull, you are in a rut & the worst? Lack of newness! What’s a girl to do? So the answer is yes, someone is having better sex than you. But all is not lost. Stay tuned next week for new ideas…here’s a hint – sex toys, plan a play date night & perhaps role playing (doctor & nurse anyone?) can light your fire!
The Single One
Should you have more sex if you’re single?
You’re single – so how much sex does the single girl get? It starts with free drinks at the bar. Men intuitively know you’re single and tend to be very generous. Drinks appear quickly and miraculously! How do they know? What do you think they want? They suddenly appear thinking the cocktail is the lure. Next your dinner is free. So now the barter system begins. You can have sexual gratification any time you want or go home, get in bed in flannel Pj’s, have 8 hours of undisturbed sleep and all the covers to yourself.
The Single One
Sex Ready or Not? There is no longer a dating order. Dating, sex, relationships are all a myth now. It’s a free for all. Our dates read into our behavior, perceive our actions, and give us a 48 hour window to decide about sex. So Game On! Sex is the powerful bargaining tool in a relationship. We are determining if you are seeing 3 other women, if this is totally the wrong relationship, or ultimately if you will be hot in bed. With enough cocktails, a super stressed day and no headache, all bad behavior becomes superfluous! So the game continues and we are cheering for the girls’ team.
The Married One
What makes women tick and men tock? Understanding, communication and lots of sex! No one is a perfect match, we have to work hard to keep that clock running on time. You hate that he throws dirty socks on the floor, he hates that you never let him finish a sentence. How many times are we thinking of kids and to do lists while we are having sex? Will he ever let go of the remote control? Bottom line – none of this matters. If he has your back and you have his you can conquer the world. You are each other’s best friend. Throw on that black nightie, hide the remote, kick the socks under the bed and focus on being his sexy mate. Afterword he will be happy to pick up his socks!