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The Single One

Remember when you climbed out your window at night in high school? Oh come on girls – was I the only one that did that? How do you duplicate that now in the single world. Only one way… a spontaneous late night rendezvous! The thrill is exhilarating. Skipping down the street at midnight.  What happens next? Can you maintain that level of spontaneity and free spirit with a new date? Who knows?  So just play a little in the single battlefield. Life is tenuous – be impulsive. There are no metals for waiting!

Can you maintain a level of spontaneity when married? The familiarity of living with someone day in and day out.  You know his habits, what he might say before he says it, what he likes & dislikes.  You know the cute way he sneezes, the not so cute way he may snore,  the every day living that comes with marriage.  It’s your comfort zone. One of many nice things about being married.  The regularity of routine. The smell that is only his and now yours. So maybe spontaneity is not exactly the right word. You can still meet at twelve midnight.  Only now you do the meeting in bed.  Same guy, day in and day out…you can still play.  Only now it’s a different game!