The Art of Flirting. A handsome stranger holds an ice cube. He looks you straight in the eye, smashes the ice cube on the floor & says “now that the ice is broken can I buy you a drink?” A quick and sexy maneuver. The chemistry is fast and seductive. You know nothing about him… maybe you don’t want to. Is he single or married – on business or just wants pleasure? Will it be a hotel room or just a playful flirtation? The tight jeans, messy hair, and hot body may be tough to resist…

What gets you wet? Could be a shower or just him! Build your own spa experience at home. What comes “up” in the shower?  A romantic vacation within your own home. Or travel to one the the hottest spa resorts and be pampered all day long. What’s better than a couples massage, followed by a steamy shower? Wow – you want food too? No naked dining… wrap yourself in yoga attire just in case you want to be in the downward dog position later.

The secret to what guys want in bed?  Let’s see… enthusiastic (don’t just lay there) praise them (yeah, they hit the spot) initiation, (men love to be told what to do) exhibitionist, (lights on, no blinds), talk dirty (where it feels good) and most important – never have a headache. The best present you can give a man is you – no hangups, no games, no jealousies. Be a friend, be patient, be empathetic, be fantastic but most important… be the incredible  gift that keeps on giving.